For years, I thought that missing my ex girlfriend was out of the equation. After our break up, I just knew and believed that I was not going to have anything to do with her. It just appeared as if we were incompatible in a lot of ways. But today, I realize that my feelings were based on selfishness on my part. Now I miss her so much and I wonder if there is a chance to get her back. My close friend gave me a book on how to get back with your ex and I plan to read it this entire week.