Let’s face it.  The average woman is not a size 2, 4 or 6.  Studies show that the average body size for a woman is actually closer to a 12-14 and many are larger than that even, including myself.  With the media, we have been accustomed to thinking that being thin is beautiful and sexy.  Larger women can be sexy and beautiful too and for me, shapewear is what helped me to feel this way.  For me, a controlling tank and panty are what help me get it together each day.  These undergarments help to smooth my problem areas and help me feel more curvy and sexy.  We deserve to feel this way too!